Found inside – Page 98Siblings whose parents divorced in later childhood or adolescence have more ... we've got closer, just because we had to rely on one another to keep each ... Found inside – Page 182Older sisters or brothers may tyrannize, sexually harass, and threaten their siblings. ... Parents can intensify sibling violence through further abuse or ... Found inside – Page 8... that her den meetings were being disrupted by parents dropping off younger brothers and sisters of her Cub Scouts. What, Mystified asked, could she do? Found inside – Page 146Jealousy among siblings is very common , and often starts when the sibling is born . ... in their excellent book Siblings Without Rivalry bring up the metaphor of a spouse who brings home another spouse . ... Younger children will compete to keep up with their older siblings , and the older ones may try to keep the younger ... So she decided to conduct her own research, interviewing psychologists and estranged siblings as well as recording the extraordinary story of her own rift with her brother--and subsequent reconciliation. Found inside – Page 115Making Sense of Sibling Relationships in Adulthood Suzanne Degges-White ... parents carry hopes that their children will fare better financially than they ... This compassionate book will help families everywhere avoid burnout and preserve bonds during one of life's most difficult passages. Found inside – Page 123Young adult brothers could be as close and affectionate as sisters. ... Solidarity helped them steer through waters their parents had not known. Found insideFor both professionals and general readers, this book clarifies the most confounding elements of sibling relationships and provides specific suggestions for realizing new, productive avenues of friendship in middle and later life—skills ... Found inside – Page 38However , these tactics can no longer work because we are no longer the same ... Another way our parents actively keep us connected with our siblings is by ... Found insideA kind of hopelessness can be generated in a child's mind: “He always does ... Sibling. About. Another. Sometimes, one child will push a parent to talk ... Found inside – Page 86Children, parents, family circumstances, and sibling relationships change. A child may be more sensitive at one age than at another. Found insideMy mother could spot Satan coming a mile away, and she would intercede and ... Life, as my siblings and I knew it, was to love one another and to keep an ... Found inside – Page 66And yet many studies show that the social skills of siblings aren't any better than those of only children, and most siblings keep fighting for years. In Keep the Siblings, Lose the Rivalry, Dr. Todd Cartmell explodes the myth that parents must sit passively by while sibling conflict runs rampant. Found inside – Page 988Nursing Goals / Strategies ( Selected Rationale ) Encourage parents to " talk through their feelings during the decision process . ... The siblings will display adaptive behavior in response to the ill client's hospitalization , as evidenced by maintaining usual ... Suggest strategies to support siblings at home and maintain their bond with the ill child . ... to fears of siblings commonly triggered by another hospitalization : fears of their sibling's impending death , of having the same thing happen ... This is the first book to explore the canonical narratives, stories, examples, and ideas that legal decisionmakers invoke to explain family law and its governing principles. Found inside – Page 168The issue of sibling rivalry is another theme that can arise when a parent dies. This rivalry, even if it was not active for many years, has the potential ... Found inside – Page 290... that when parents died, their children could fight over the tiniest things—scraps of tin from the roof, a door, a window. Siblings keep close score: ... Found inside – Page 162Areas that receive low ratings by parents but high enthusiasm by children can be ... Three brothers who all do well at soccer decide that they will select ... Found insideAlso, an established hierarchy of sibling caretakers can lead to tyranny of older ... tries to appease younger siblingsto keep parents from being upset. Found inside – Page 54This chapter looks at the linguistic relationships siblings can have at home. ... to another sibling would be an advantage for the parents. This could help ... Found insidemeasure asks parents to answer how likely they are to respond in various ... their method of sibling dispute intervention can help parents appreciate ... Found insidehave a shared history, they can support each other as they grieve their shared losses. ... For all the potential benefits of keeping sibling groups intact, ... Found inside – Page 79The next section will consider how parents influence the sibling relationship ... adult siblings keep in touch indirectly through their parents' updates. Found inside – Page 122We can harm our children's relationships with each other by assuming that ... represent the only way that brothers and sisters can relate to each other . Ziff advocates for communication of end-of-life matters based on stories and personal revelations, warmth, honesty, and humor woven skillfully through text, writing prompts, and guided exercises. Found insideA child for whom indistrict placement is appropriate can still be caught between ... another child does not have enough onetoone instruction, another parent ... This is the first book that provides guidance on the transition from the “old” family to the “new” one, especially for adult siblings. Found inside – Page 43Sisters and Brothers Rosalind Edwards, Lucy Hadfield, Helen Lucey, Melanie Mauthner ... specific contexts can help keep them connected, albeit negatively. Found inside – Page 1322. Perform Estate Planning Parents should be encouraged to establish and keep an updated will . Without one , the death of a parent can destabilize the ... Found insideFrank, 24 years old whenhis younger sisterdied, had spent some time in South America and could not stop worrying about how his mother was doing backathome. Found insideWorking Daughter provides a roadmap for women trying to navigate caring for aging parents and their careers. Found insideExplores the profound influence of sibling relationships through emerging research in the areas of birth order, twin studies, and genetic encoding to consider the role of sibling relationships in emotional disorders and behavioral traits. Offers advice for couples seeking to understand themselves and each other, including dealing with differences, supporting each other, emotional and sexual intimacy, and making your home a loving home Found insideRosenheim and Reicher, in another paper, “Children in Anticipatory Grief” (1986), describe the potential loss of a parent as being compounded by the ... Found insideTips to Eliminate Rivalry, Avoid Favoritism, And Keep the Peace Linda Sonna ... In fact, excluding brothers and sisters can further fragment the family. Found insideRather than children being scattered among various siblings of the parents, or one sibling taking care of another's child, some international migrants makea ... Found inside – Page 27a sibling seems to be more acceptable than violence caused by a parent; ... An initial hypothesis might be that good sibling relationships can buffer ... Found inside – Page 87The solution : Hull House Association set out to design a program that could effectively keep sibling groups together . DCFS provided the funding for ... Found inside – Page 93Siblings ' friendships Few of the children reported that having a disabled ... on his mother's instructions : ' I just want to keep it between ... my mum ... Found inside – Page 176They may recognize that a younger sibling is constantly the butt of jokes of an ... excellent ways that parents can really listen to their children in their ... Illustrated with poignant portraits of brothers and sisters in childhood, adolescence, and adulthood, this book provides a profound understanding of these complex and enduring relationships, examining the influence of childhood intimacy, ... Found inside – Page 145Developmental, Dynamic, and Technical Aspects of the Sibling Relationship Salman Akhtar, Selma Kramer. In contrast, regressed and depleted parents may ... 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